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In today’s SMP, men need a guide on different personality types. Many women display some of these traits. Certainly not all women have these traits. Be on the lookout, and be careful.

1. The Attention Whore. 

She posts dozens, even hundreds of photos of herself on social networking internet sites in various states of undress or in provocative poses, especially the “duckface” pose. Frequently displays herself in revealing clothes. She drinks to excess in public and is usually a loud, obnoxious drunk, flirting around and dancing on the bar.

2. The Entitlement Princess. 

She makes unreasonable demands on your time and money. She demands nights out regularly, all on your dime. This will soon escalate to gifts and vacations – all expenses paid by you, of course. She expects gifts for every holiday, the Hallmark ones included. She never pays her own way for anything. She expects to come first and foremost in your life. Her wants and needs come first, every time, all the time. Will sex up her man, but only when she feels like it. As a date or a girlfriend, she demands to be treated as a wife. If she doesn’t get what she wants, she administers punishment by withholding sex.

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3. The Status Whore. 

She seeks to impress everyone with her life and her material acquisitions. She spends obscene amounts of money on clothes, shoes and accessories, far out of proportion to their usefulness or value. She tells everyone about her designer this or that, describing the item, where she purchased it and how much she paid for it. She talks incessantly about her high status or high salary job/career/educational program. She name drops famous, notorious or prominent people she went to school with, worked with, or has met.

4. The Special Snowflake. 

Look out, world, here she comes. She is completely and totally unique. No one has ever met anyone like her. Only she can tame her man and keep him happy. Sure, he’s dated a lot of women, but that was before he met HER. She will rock his world, and he will never be the same. She will make him into exactly what she wants him to be, and she will succeed where others failed because she’s special and different. Sure, she’s slept around, just like her friends and everyone else. But she’s different from all those other girls because, well, she did that only with better men than they did, or not as much as those other girls did, or she stayed with her men longer than they did, so that makes her different and better. Besides, when she did those things, she was only being true to herself. She has the strongest rationalization hamster known to man.

5. Certifiably Crazy. 

Women showing garden variety neuroses, indecision, crying episodes, or moodiness don’t fit into this category. I’m talking about truly disturbed women with serious issues needing professional help. Truly, these women need help and should not be dating. She almost certainly suffers from at least one diagnosable mental disorder. Physical attractiveness runs the gamut from 1 to 10. She is usually sexually assertive and experienced. Might be divorced at least once. She calls her man 20 times a day (not an exaggeration) or gives him $100 gifts on the first date. Her behavior is wildly unpredictable. Susceptible to violent and rapid mood swings. She likely suffers from one or more addictions and might have a criminal record. She can become physically violent in a heartbeat. In extreme cases she brandishes deadly weapons at her man and throws heavy objects at him. When her man breaks up with her, she verbally harasses and abuses him and mails him abusive letters. She might publicize the relationship and breakup to any and all who will listen. She might vandalize his property. She could falsely accuse him of rape or sexual assault. Textbook example: The Glenn Close character in the film “Basic Instinct”. The certifiably crazy woman must be avoided at all costs and all contact immediately ended.

6. The Single Mother. 

She is usually desperate for a man. She hates her ex-husband and is always fighting with him about child support, visitation, and alimony. She probably has financial problems. Her child(ren) will always come before her man. As a practical matter, the man who marries or LTRs a single mom ends up supporting her child who will disrespect him and treat him as an interloper. And she might lose respect for her man because he volunteered to support another man’s child. On occasion he has to deal with her ex-husband/children’s father. She might even try to get pregnant by her new man so as to ensnare him in a relationship or marriage.

7. The Needy, Clingy Girl.

• Subtype A. The Insecure Sexual Dynamo. These are hard to detect and sometimes confused with the Entitlement Princess or Certifiably Crazy. She wants to be with you all the time, and will do almost anything to make that happen. Runs the gamut in attractiveness from below average to well above average. She secures her man through rapid sexual escalation and will do almost anything in bed that he asks for. Makes herself sexually available to her man all the time. She is sexually assertive, even aggressive. Her prime identifying markers are: After the sex has been going on a few weeks, she starts showing jealousy, suspicion, territorial behavior, and extraordinary insecurity (but not Certifiably Crazy). She engages in too much public display of affection and literally smothers her man with her time, attention and presence. She always believes her man is about to break up with her – even when things are going relatively well. Given to frequent crying episodes and emotional displays, usually for venting, sometimes unwittingly to manipulate her man into what she wants. If he wants to do things without her, she complains, or might even falsely accuse him of cheating on her. She can make a good LTR if she can get past her insecurity.

• Subtype B. The Female Nerd. She is unaccustomed to a lot of male attention. She is routinely passed over for more physically attractive women. Physically, she is of average attractiveness at best. She knows this and it causes her some resentment. She could improve her physical attractiveness but doesn’t know what to do or how to do it, or doesn’t care, or both. She is usually of above average intelligence. She has a good job and is capable, but lacks the drive of a career first woman (see below). She lacks confidence and is frequently indecisive and awkward in her relationships with others. She has had only a smattering of relationship or sexual experience and probably has few friends. She has little direction or purpose, and is generally dissatisfied with her life. She will look completely and totally to her man to give her direction, purpose and life satisfaction. She tends (unwittingly) to take her frustrations out on the people in her life, especially her man. This type can be an excellent mate if she can suppress her tendency to seek complete direction and purpose from her romantic relationship, and bump up her confidence a little.

8. The Carousel Rider.

In her late teens and early to mid 20s, she dated and had sex with only high status men: very physically attractive men; wealthy, established men; men in high powered careers; professional athletes; rock musicians and “bad boys”. She now wants to “settle down” with a “nice guy who will treat me right” because she is “not like that anymore”. (In truth, she has tired of the ride or, more likely, has discovered she can no longer attract those high status men.) She is very sexually skilled and experienced. She’s probably had a couple of LTRs, but they ended in one of the partners cheating. She is usually above average in physical attractiveness. She has a high sex partner count. She honestly doesn’t know why none of her previous sex partners would commit to her, much less marry her. She’s almost always late 20s or early 30s, maybe even late 30s, and never married. She’s defensive about her past, and will accuse anyone asking about it or confronting her on it of judgmentalism and hypocrisy.

9. The Career First Woman. She puts her career above all else – family, friends, relationships and leisure time. She really wants an LTR or marriage now, but her man comes second to the job. She believed she could postpone relationships and marriage until later, so she could get her career off the ground. She does not want children or is ambivalent on the subject. Even in an LTR or marriage, her career comes first, to the detriment of family, marriage, health and sanity.